7.4 Factors influencing relationship formation and commitment
3 min read•july 31, 2024
Relationships don't just happen by chance. Various factors influence who we're drawn to and how committed we become. From and to and timing, our connections are shaped by personal traits and social influences.
Partner selection involves more than just looks. Personality, , and all play a role. As relationships progress, social networks, investments, and life goals impact commitment levels. Understanding these factors helps explain the complex world of dating and mate selection.
Relationship Formation Factors
Proximity and Attraction
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Proximity and propinquity increase likelihood of relationship formation through frequent encounters
serves as initial draw influenced by cultural standards and individual preferences
Similarity in attitudes, values, and interests fosters relationship development through shared experiences
Complementarity in and skills creates sense of balance and mutual benefit
explains relationship formation as cost-benefit analysis maximizing rewards and minimizing costs
Attachment and Timing
Attachment styles developed in early childhood influence adult relationship patterns and partner selection
Timing and readiness play crucial role including concept of being "emotionally available" for new relationships
Individual's affect openness to forming new connections (career changes, relocations)
Past relationship experiences shape willingness to pursue new partnerships
Partner Selection: Personal Characteristics
Physical and Personality Traits
Physical attributes like appearance and health play significant role in initial attraction (facial symmetry, body type)
Personality traits influence and satisfaction (extraversion, agreeableness, emotional stability)
Intelligence and educational background often lead to assortative mating based on cognitive abilities
Communication styles and conflict resolution skills essential for relationship success
Individual attachment styles shape partner preferences and subsequent relationship dynamics
Socioeconomic and Cultural Factors
Socioeconomic status and career prospects impact selection reflecting societal values and aspirations (income level, job stability)
Cultural and religious background crucial in societies with strong traditional values (shared customs, religious practices)
and upbringing influence partner preferences (similar family structures, parenting styles)
and educational attainment often factor into selection process
Relationship Commitment: Social Influence
Social Network and Cultural Norms
reinforces relationship bonds (support from family and friends)
shape commitment levels including attitudes towards marriage and cohabitation
Availability of alternative partners in social environment affects commitment (explained by )
Media and technology influence relationship expectations (impact of social media, dating apps)
External Factors and Investments
Socioeconomic factors impact ability and willingness to commit (, career opportunities)